For a long time I’ve dealt with my gelding being dull to the leg, and I’ve started to wonder if we’ve reached a point that spurs would be an appropriate next step, or if I just need to work harder. We are a mismatched pair; He’s 17.2hh and I’m 5’4 with short legs. With jumping stirrups my leg is only half way down his barrel. My legs aren’t particularly strong and I often feel like I have no leg left to put on when I need to add more.
I ride with a crop every ride and while forward can be an issue, I can get him going without too much trouble usually. Even when he’s moving forward though, he’s not pliable. If I try to put my leg on to spiral out, or support a half halt, or do lateral work, either he ignores it or falls behind my leg from the hand. I’ve asked my trainer and I’ve been told to do lots of w-t rapid transition. Those help forward, but I still have no lateral.
I’m a long time hunter rider whereas he always did dressage and I attempted to ride dressage too. (Always had a second horse to jump with). Decided recently to stop failing at dressage and he’s learning to jump. My trainer schools him twice a week and he used to do 2nd level. Trainer uses spurs every time and I’ve noticed times when my trainer really has to use the spurs to get him to respond.
I used to ride with spurs all the time but stopped when I started with this trainer a few years ago. No particular reason, just never put them on. My leg isn’t terrible, but I end up having to try so hard to get a response from my leg that my heel raises and leg becomes unstable. If he was more responsive, I think I would have a much quieter leg.
My previous horse, I could do HI ti SI on a trot circle, the LY down the quarter line to a canter departure, despite being less schooled. This guy, I can get a SI at a walk out of a corner. Last weekend my trainer was away and I tried out my spurs again, little 1/4" pow with vet wrap over the ends. Rode twice with them. First ride I was able to school SI at the trot on a circle and 10m trot circles. Second ride we were doing W-C transitions down center line. Wasn’t perfect, but he would actually yield to my leg. I think My leg was sitting in such a way that my spurs didn’t touched him in neutral.
If spurs would be appropriate, how should I approach my trainer with this? I know many of you are trainers and coaches. How would you like to approached by a student asking to wear spurs? I’m worried that since they only ever see me struggling with my leg, that they will say my leg is too unstable.