I’m bawling my eyes out typing this so don’t ream me too hard, okay?
After cleaning up eight diarrhea accidents this evening after a very bad day at work – three of which dried on tile floor while I was at work, so that was a lot of fun – I am at my wit’s end with my cat. He was diagnosed with colitis about 5 years ago and he will NOT use his box to poo. I have tried everything. Every vet, every treatment, every food, every diet, every litter, every shape, model, length, depth etc. of litter box…nothing stops the diarrhea, and nothing will make him use his litter box. NOTHING. I have six litter boxes set up. He will go next to the box, but he will not go in the box. He urinates in the box just fine.
Short of putting him to sleep, I don’t know what else to do. I’m not ready for that step…HE’S not ready for that step. If you didn’t know he had chronic diarrhea you would think he was perfectly fine. He’s 16ish but he plays, he eats like a champ, he takes care of his coat and is shiny…he doesn’t act sick. But I cannot handle the accidents anymore. He has gone on my BED, for crying out loud. I have watched him jump up on the bed and go to the bathroom before. He’s ruined things. He will knock papers down and go to the bathroom on them. He went to the bathroom on one of my work bags tonight and it’s probably ruined. It’s not even solid and easy to clean up, it’s mushy diarrhea. I have bought more carpet cleaner, towels, and cleaner for tile floors than I care to admit.
I’ve dealt with it and dealt with it because I love him but I just don’t know how much more I can deal. I am sobbing right now. This is the second time in a couple of months he’s went on a giant pooping spree. What can I do to stop this behavior? I’m not even sure how much of it is the colitis, or if it’s behavioral/ Obviously I need to close him in a room, if not buy a crate, but what kind of life is that? Is it fair to separate him from my other cat during the day? Should I put him down? I don’t know what to do but I just cannot do this anymore.
if you made it to the end, thanks for listening. I promise I love him very much and don’t want to put him down but I just can’t do this anymore.