[QUOTE=thehorsedream;8490060]
Thank you for looking at my blog. I understand that you do not train a horse through punishing them for the wrong thing. As i said in my response, the way I read the op’s post was the horse was disrespecting aids. In that situation I would advocate making sure the horse is listening to you ie a spank with a crop. I know that not everyone agrees with me and I understand that.
I am hoping to get help from a trainer but money is a factor. I definitely plan on reading as many books as possible so that I can be a better rider and trainer.[/QUOTE]
I do understand that money is a factor for you. This is a problem, because you really do need more education before attempting to teach your horse anything about jumping.
I encouraged you to keep reading books since you can’t afford instruction at this time. However, reading is not a substitute for lessons or training and you cannot learn how to train a horse from a book.
A book is a supplement,an adjunct to proper instruction by a qualified person who is on the ground and watching you ride.
You certainly cannot learn to ride or “train” a horse by reading a book. It really doesn’t work that way.
I know that the idea is sold to many people that they can “learn to be a horse trainer” or “learn to ride” by buying this book, or that series of DVDs.
It doesn’t work that way and anyone who tells you that it does, is only trying to make a buck.
Please, study hard but do not try to jump your horse without instruction. When you have solved every problem you are having with your horse on the flat (and it seems that you are having many) then you might think about finding someone to help you learn how to train you and your horse to jump.
If you take it slowly and realize that training horses is just not that easy, you will save yourself and your horse much pain and aggravation.
Especially since your horse is 18 yrs old, you really need someone knowledgeable to look at him. His spookiness may be the result of lack of exercise or from pain, and you need the advice of someone who knows the difference.
It’s always good to read during the winter if you aren’t able to ride much.There is much to be learned from books about stable management, grooming, and the health and feeding of horses, so read whatever you can find on the subject. There is plenty to learn!