Wow, that sounds incredibly judgmental. I think it’s interesting to discuss people’s food choices who have a common interest and lifestyle, but there’s more than enough combative threads about this subject on a variety of forums.
Growing up, my mom LOVED steak and my dad was a big fish eater (and just a big eater). I never really liked what my mother would call “real food.” In other words, I’d happily gobble down pepperoni pizza, chicken nuggets, McDonald’s (but not regular cheeseburgers), and fried clams, but didn’t like healthier types of meat like chops or roasted chicken.
When I was 13, I was vegetarian for a year, but my mom hated to cook and I had no way to really learn, so that was very difficult, and I began eating meat again, mostly junk food.
In college, there were a number of vegetarian options I liked better than meat, and I began to eat more vegetables because I realized that it was possible to eat veggies other than watery boiled Green Giant vegetables poured from a can.
I transitioned to vegetarian when I was 23, after a horrific experience with chicken (not food poisoning, just gross and underdone, and it put me off). I was vegetarian until I was 36, at my healthiest in the UK where there were so many Indian and dairy options, and unhealthiest in the US where I basically ate a lot of vegan and vegetarian junk food.
I went back to eating meat, and experimented with many different ways and proportions of meat in my diet. I currently am a pescatarian, eating fish. I’m a very serious runner (training for my third marathon currently), and my ability to recover from my long runs is SO MUCH better now that I eat some meat. When I was vegetarian, I was running fewer miles per week and what would be a short run for myself would take me out.
But I eat a lot of fruits, veggies, and whole grains, in addition to meat. I also use plant-based dairy, but that’s mainly because of stomach issues. I do have qualms about factory farming–I always have–and I feel better eating fish ethically as well as physically.
I think it’s best to eat minimally processed foods, meat and otherwise, and I think it’s very difficult to be vegetarian or vegan, truthfully, without relying upon a lot of soy hockey pucks, unless you really love beans. I do not, and they mess with my stomach.