Interesting thread that resonates. I am 56 and have had horses my entire life. I currently own 5 plus 2 minis and keep them at home on 17 acres, where we have lived for 22 years. We are upper middle class but I am having to reduce my numbers. I just sold one gorgeous youngster I would have rather kept, and have two others. The other three are in their early to mid-teens and are not for sale.
The oldest at 15, has DSLD and I have been putting off euthanizing him. He is going on 6 years post diagnosis and I know he hurts. Still looks great and has a great attitude, but he moves more carefully and lays down a lot. He is the horse I started eventing on and always took care of me, so I’ve given him these 6 years of retirement. I do not plan on having him by the time winter returns.
Why? Because I am now paying $10 a bale for grass hay. It jumped from $6 a bale to $10 during covid when supply chain issues hit and the cost of fertilizer and fuel skyrocketed. He and his two brothers are 17hd draft crosses. They are easy keepers when it comes to grain, but during the winter, the three of them will inhale an 800lb round bale per week at $100 per bale. I used to pay $50.
I will let him go and keep his two brothers. I am debating about the two youngsters. Do I keep one; both? Or do the sensible thing and let them both go and enjoy the two older ones until I can’t.
Last time I had a horse colic due to dehydration (fall, changeable weather - horse didn’t consume enough water while consuming hay) it cost me $3k in vet costs. I sent her to my vet’s clinic to have fluid therapy rather than at home like I had always done, for about $800. Won’t make that mistake again, and will hang and run the fluids myself.
We have dogs and cats and the cost to have them seen by our regular vet is now astronomical. Routine dentals cost $600 plus. I had one cost $900. Vet did not even call me to say, it was going to be that expensive. Found out at pick-up. So I now source out low cost options for them at every opportunity.
For years I have been able to keep 4 to 6 horses at home without breaking the bank because I did as much as I could myself and with my husband’s help with regard to pasture and fencing management, and didn’t indulge the fancy extras or the treatment fad dujour. I did all the shots, worming, veterinary care with supervision, but at home. I’ve managed lots of things at home that quite a few people hospitalize their horses for. Fortunately, with good management, the issues have been few and far between. My horses don’t wear shoes and have good feet. I showed some, had fun, but now just trail ride. I would like to be able to show some again when I retire in about 10 years. Less if I am fortunate. But it likely won’t be on one of the older guys. The youngsters were relatively cheap because they are young and by the time they’re sensible, the older two will be approaching 20. So I constantly debate with myself, but I will probably be selling at least one youngster.
The costs, especially during the winter months when there isn’t a lot of horse enjoyment happening due to the cold, muddy weather, I really question my sanity over horse-keeping. Lots of work and expense, made even worse by the cost of everything doubling. But I still love riding. After a hard day or week, losing myself in the trees on horseback is my therapy and the woods are my church.
No judgment here for anyone making hard choices about letting a compromised horse go due primarily to the costs. It sucks but far better they go gently than not. The reality of making the choice to kill something you love due primarily to economics just blows. But we are not talking about dogs and cats here. Just to euthanize and bury my horse will cost $700. Those of you opting for $2500 cremation? Go you, but I can’t even.
I love the life and feel fortunate to have gotten to indulge it so widely and reasonably for so long. But those days look to be behind for the vast majority of us now and more’s the pity. I will continue to enjoy it in a reduced capacity for as long as I am able but I begin to wonder if retiring with horses is going to be a reality or pipe dream.