I have a very lovely green bean. He’s smart, willing, brave, and doesn’t get ruffled when I make mistakes.
Problem is, I make LOTS of mistakes with him at the little jumps (like crossrails) we’re jumping. I don’t do a great job of keeping him straight or balanced, so it’s miss after miss. Plus I’m an amateur with an average eye, so there’s that.
My dear young boy keeps on trucking, but I’m afraid I’ll mess him up this way. Part of me wants to tell my trainer to demote me to poles until I can get my sh*t together and learn to ride.
Thoughts? I don’t want to be that client who bosses the trainer, but I’m really nervous I’ll teach this horse bad things.
Edited to add: he gets training rides, so at least there’s someone teaching him how to do things correctly.