Disclaimer that I do 100% appreciate logic in these situations, which I think your post demonstrates; however, it’s unacceptable behavior that certainly doesn’t appear to be an isolated incident.
I don’t think he deserves empathy based on what I’ve seen. Empathy for the person who once in a blue moon looses their temper and, once the moment passes realizes and owns their mistakes, yes; Empathy for the person who leverages these tactics as consistent training methods, absolutely not.
He chose this as his profession. He has clearly shown (based on current info) that this how he operates. We do not allow empathy to people who commit insider trading, fraud, etc. because they feel pressured to do so in order to succeed in their chosen line of work… and those are crimes that don’t cause physical harm to another living being.
You can’t call for empathy for someone who has so blatantly committed some truly terrible crimes against the animals they claim to love just because they may be mentally fragile. He’s an adult, he knew it would be bad if it came out, he choose to behave this way, and he was arrogant enough to do it in some fairly public settings.
Now, the flip side. We also can’t just blast this everywhere and put the narrative in the hands of people who don’t know horse sports and don’t care about the ramifications for the equestrian world as whole. They do not have the horse world’s best interests at heart, they want dramatic stories that get the public riled up. That will take the entire ship down.
So don’t burn the powers that be at the stake- they need to approach this strategically for the sake of everyone who posts on this board and loves eventing. Acting in a measured way is more important that acting on a short timeline.
To the upper level riders defending or glossing over this- would you send your horse to this man for a month?