I basically never post anything on here but just have to dive in head first, especially since I live on the island. For the record I have never been to Brenners Farm or even heard of it until now.
Did you know that Nassau and Suffolk counties on LI were recently ranked the Most expensive place to live in America? We have insanely high property taxes, land prices, childcare, and housing costs. As an example, if I could ever convince my husband to move we could go out west to somewhere equally beautiful and buy a piece of land 4x what we have now, build a bigger house, a bigger barn and an indoor (which we don’t have now) and still expect to pay 12 times LESS in property taxes. The kicker is we would be able to bring in the same income we make now and have access to better schools and roads. So to say that the only reason the Brenners have opened their place up to the public is because they couldn’t hack it at being a “real” working farm is unfair and probably untrue.
At a time when people whose families have been farming and fishing this island since the 16 and 17 hundreds are being driven off the island due to the high cost of living many many of the those remaining have been forced to find additional ways to make their property and/or animals work for them in order to make ends meet. You can’t turn around here without seeing a kids adventure park/ come pet our dairy cows/hay ride type place so it’s hardly a novel concept.
I really don’t understand how one person could say that they knew better than to talk to kids about slaughter and then in the next breath insist that the Brenners do it. And go one step past that and say they should offer butchery classes?! He’d be out of business by end of day. If you look at the website the place is clearly geared towards pre-school and elementary children, no way would that kind of program work. During the season he’ll be packed with city people who come out to the “country” and DO NOT WANT to be forced to face reality and see where their steak actually comes from. Obviously, since this ridiculous petition is going on and I seriously suspect that this is what the issue actually is. That woman did not like being forced to have to think about where her food come from for 5 seconds.
As for being honest, I don’t see how choosing to show children (and their parents) about farming and self-sustainability to a point is dishonest. Dags said is perfectly, its the parents responsibility to teach their children about the circle of life not some random farmer. The website does state that they raise animals for self-sustainability and it’s really up to the people reading to make the connection. As far as having a named cow that people have a connection with I would venture to guess these people have maybe seen her one time, or perhaps once a year when they come out this way.
And as for gasp unknowingly being forced to pay to pet a cow on death row? It’s not like they were invited to come pet the cows and then taken into a slaughter house or feed lot geez. I take more issue with the local rescue that “cons” city folk into paying the rescue to do THEIR chores (turn in, feeding and grooming). But they found that people are interested in doing it so more power to them, I’ll just sadly have to keep paying my guys to come do stalls on the weekend 
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But that is the big giant spectacularly missed neon blinking educational opportunity we are talking about.
THIS cow is getting the most magnificent care (ie: animal management) of possibly any cow in this entire country. There is absolutely ZERO complaint about this animal’s care. Only that it is going to die. For food. Like the gazillions of other cows out there. Only they are in far, far worse situations.
You want pointed mentions of animal slaughter on the web site, and in the next breath point out it will ruin his business. So, what now? No kids get to visit a real live farm?
He does it right. He shows them the cow and then the parents can connect the dots if they so desire. For sure, some parents don’t wanna touch this with a 10’ pole, and so they don’t ask where the freaking farm cow ends up. Others might see it as an excellent opportunity to teach their child about respect for your food and the push for a humane food cycle. Either way, the parents make the call.
The parents define the perception these children gain, not the farmer.
And ignorance just cannot count. Everyone knows burgers come from cows. Steaks come from cows. Beef Tartare comes from cows. You do not need some degree in rural living to figure this out. If Minnie the Cow is slapping fast-food-loving New Yorkers in the face with a big sloppy tongues full of this is what dinner looks like, then good.
What’s done is done, and yeah, I don’t predict a huge impact to the bottom line. So alllll that matters now is the conversation you choose to have about it. You can foster and defend the ignorance, or you can stand up for the education you admit these folks don’t have.
And FWIW, city-folk are not idjits. And as a Chicagoan I certainly don’t need to be told about them. Geez.[/QUOTE]
I love love this so much.