Ok so Kat Morel had a regular coach and was in FL with her training group/barn.
Everyone here - or very nearly almost everyone here - who has seen the videos agrees on at least one thing: that the horse was not straight.
How is it that a rider who rides regularly - for years - with a coach who has UL experience can get away with riding a horse this way not to mention moving up the levels?
How is it that the coach didn’t teach her the importance of straightness, apparently at any point in the years that the rider was competing this horse?
I don’t know the coach. I realize that Kat Morel was an adult and could make her own decisions so it’s possible that she’d resisted any attempts to - literally - straighten her out. But it’s also very possible that the coach doesn’t reinforce the basics and is fine with her students moving up whenever they scrape through the requirements. If that’s the case, this coach wouldn’t be unique, IME.
I’ve been haunted by the Rebecca video. And also the Red Hills video where she leave the start box crooked and it goes from there. Seriously.
I wish I’d discovered the Rebecca video last week or last month or last year. I wish I’d posted it on here on a thread called something like ‘OMG! - How is this not dangerous riding?’ (Which I have done with videos in the past.) I know I would have been raked over the coals by some BB members saying it’s not my business or I was hurting someone’s feelings or I have no idea what I’m talking about. All of that might be true but none of it’s as bad as Kat and Kerry getting killed on XC.
And you know what? It might have got back to the rider and she might have seen all the fuss and - who knows? - maybe someone who cared about her would have got through to her.
So this comes down to the one action we can all take that doesn’t cost anything. To borrow the well-worn phrase from Homeland Security, if you see something say something.
If you see someone riding dangerously, reach out to them. Ask how it’s going, tell them you saw them out there and you were a bit worried. You can do this in a friendly way and you may have a discussion of what’s going on with their riding and their horse - which all horse people like to do - and you’ll have expressed your concern in a way that might make them rethink.
Who cares if it’s a total stranger or a rider who rides at a higher level than you? It’s a human thing to say ‘How’s it going? I saw you had a bit of a hairy moment at the ditch…’ No need to be afraid to speak up if you spot a dangerous or potentially dangerous situation.
Make safety and riding concerns something that we talk to each other about as equals and without boundaries and without fear.