Fact is though, BP, you try to get people to do some of the things you’re talking about, and they go home and do, indeed, just ‘fiddle with the reins’ and waggle their horse’s head back and forth like a used car salesman’s head.
That doesn’t make you wrong, but it also doesn’t make lstevenson wrong. You guys both want to have one of you be wrong (so does gls, lol!).
She’s right. People DO tuss that up. And yes, what you’re saying is true too. A lot of times, it’s better to just get people to sit there and hold their hands still, LOL. People get so excited about ‘framing up’ the horse and getting him to put his head down and chin in, that they go bananas with the hands.
At some point, though, it isn’t enough to just float along, and people have to go thru the process of learning to influence their horse. If all one ever does is try not to do anything with the reins, one gets a very stiff, off balance horse that does not bend and is not through.
‘Spongeing the reins’ is indeed taught, so is vibrating the reins, etc. But at any given point, it is either right or wrong to do those things. People take ‘spongeing the reins’ and wind up waggling the head back and forth and ‘putting their horse in a frame’ by making him drop the bit by jerking first one rein and then the other (it doesn’t matter if it’s done hard or soft, it’s still a problem). People ‘sponge the reins’ to get their horse to ‘assume the position’ and drop the bit.
Is it useful at times? OH YEAH. The problem is, NONE of these things is appropriate ALL the time, for ALL students, for ALL horses, for ALL problems. It’s just as inappropriate to ‘offer a pair of siderein hands’ to a horse at times as well. “Side rein hands” encourage pullers to pull more, and don’t help horses that are off balance. It VERY much helps people that tend to be over-fussy with their hands, but it’s not right for every situation, and when people go home and work by themselves for long periods, they’re just as likely to do that wrong as anything else.
And no, actually, despite the many times it’s repeated here as the perfect solution to pulling, dropping the reins only makes the horse fall off balance more, and then jerk his head up and drop his back to try to regain his balance.
Yes, theoretically every thing you could do with your reins, including pulling the horses nose around to your knee, is needed at some point in SOME ride, such as when horsey decides to make a break for home or stand on his hind legs.
It’s finding what is appropriate for each horse/rider/stage on that day, that’s the key.