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Maybe there wasn’t anyone to hand her one. Watching the track and field last night, the athletes were getting handed flags from people in the stands, it wasn’t like there were flags there available for them.[/QUOTE]
Exactly. This has been the tradition at Olympics and other big events in the past. The flags of different nations are flapped from the stands after a race, and the winners sometimes go to the stands and acknowledge their countrymen by taking a flag from the spectators, which is then worn (and, gifted from fan to athlete).
It’s not usually something planned in advance. It’s the same as when flowers rain down on the ice in figure skating and the skater picks up some of the bundles and skates around with them in her/his arms.
I think it’s socially interesting that some people constantly want to prescribe correct behavior, and project their own views toward symbols and ceremonies onto everyone else.
Sorry, but you control only yourself. (Not meaning the OP, necessarily, but the general you)
Want to display a flag on your house? Do so. Want to stand with your hand over your heart for the national anthem every time you hear it? Do so. Want to wave a tiny stick flag from the stands? Do that. Want to wave a bigger one made of fabric? That’s your option, too. Want to recite the words “under god” in the pledge? Do so, as loud as you like.
But quit pointing out the perceived lack of respect among everyone else who’s doing, in your opinion, an inferior job of displaying their jingoism. Not everyone wants an extra thing to carry. Not everyone wants to sing along, or recite along, to anything.
I get so tired of people equating jingoism with patriotism. People don’t “display” their real feelings about their own countries when gathering for sporting or other cultural events, and we shouldn’t be compelled to do so.
And we shouldn’t encourage this idea of scanning the crowd (or looking at athlete behaviors on TV) to see who’s living up to our standards of “patriotic” behavior. How insecure is a person who cares about that? The rules are so arbitrary anyway, and they’re always evolving. And, (shocker) you can’t tell where people were born, or where they live now, just by looking at them.
People in the stands or watching at home should give up these petty insecurities and quit whining about what spectators or winners are doing (or not doing) with regard to their own personal symbols and ceremonies.
Heck, in this day and age we should just be happy any time a huge crowd comes together in a venue, and there’s no violence. Everyone present gets home, after the cheering, safely, to their loved ones. Celebrate that.