It is a fine line between love and hate…both are passionate responses and can cloud judgement. See it happen and I’ll see it again. I ain’t perfect either, I’ve done or said some irrational things. Gee I wish there was a rewind button on my mouth sometimes. So I think people just need to be urged to think carefully of the ramifications of their actions and rise to new levels of maturity when something ends to protect those that should not be involved in the first place.
If you gotta sleep with the vet, make the super human effort to be objective when you require his “professional” services. Don’t ask the secretary to work late when you’ve been rejected. And don’t ever harm an animal because you’re emotion wounded.
Most importantly…don’t get married this year, I can’t afford to attend yet another wedding.