I could write post after post about things I have witnessed like this and experienced in my line of work too. Very old boys club. Thankfully my current employer is amazing and that stuff doesn’t fly, but the other offices I worked in…whooo.
I’ll give one example. Guy wants a sales job, no experience, gets hired. Gets salary, gets an assistant to manage all his files. Guys does nothing all day, in 2 years, he sells around $22k. Monthly goals are $25k, for an idea.
Several women want to go into sales in our office. Many with years and years of experience in the field. They never get the chance. Some of them sell more than $22k a month, on top of looking after all the clients. Years go by…
Guy still has not sold anything. Guy has mental health issues (not really, he just wanted out since people were finally figuring out he wasn’t doing his work). Takes leave for stress. See him on instagram a few weeks later at a bender with his NHL player friend…see him out in town on total coke binges. Etc, etc.
Boss asks me, “what happened with guy? I don’t just don’t get it?” " HE HAD SO MUCH POTENTIAL".
Guy literally never showed potential, never did work. Just had a penis and a nice smile. But the man always has potential, the woman has to work 200 times as hard to get NOTICED.
Finally, a woman gets a sales position. Makes top sales agent almost every month of her first year. Gets no recognition. No other women since have been moved to sales since. The cycle continues.