What do you do with an event horse that has bad dressage / will not accept the contact?
Have had OTTB for 3 years and brought him along from BN --recently finished our first Prelim. He is 11 years old, has done a ton of events now, dressage shows, clinics, jumper shows, etc.
Horse has been taken to specialist vet (and multitude of “regular” vets), has had dental work, been treated for ulcers, etc. I do not think he is in any kind of serious pain as he jumps very happily around Prelim courses.
Initially had a lot of nervousness/tension in dressage, but has recently become more calm and levelheaded, but will still not truly accept contact. I have tried every bit/bridle known to man, taken as many dressage lessons as I can (which admittedly is hard to do around here). Tried various warm-up techniques. Tried lunging in side-reins.
He absolutely hates dressage. The more I work on anything resembling flat work that isn’t hacking, the more miserable he becomes and our dressage seems to get worse throughout the season. He will go around nicely on a semi loose rein, but the second we start trying to do multiple transitions in a small area, take up a contact, etc, it all goes to hell and he will run sideways and even try to rear. We have made some big improvements over the past few years, he has no problem with lateral work, can do canter serpentines on both leads, etc., but the basics of his walk, trot, and canter, are still pretty bad. On collective marks I routinely get 7’s on gaits (have even received an 8), but always have a 3 on submission.
Not an option to send him to a pro as there are none here. I am not a terrible rider and have scored in low 30’s in dressage routinely on other horses. I have taken him to three vets and they cannot find anything wrong with him. Vet is tired of seeing this horse.
What do you do with a horse like this? Even though he’s a XC machine, he’s not saleable as an event horse because his dressage scores are bad and he is not tolerant of rider mistakes. Teens that are doing well on the local jumper circuit cannot take him over a X-rail safely without him becoming a camel and taking off (he does not do this with me). Not very well behaved foxhunting either. I cannot afford another horse unless this one sells (and that amount can be used on the next one). At what point should I just accept my fate of having super terrible dressage and learn to event at the bottom of the board?