Which is why many of us posted and suggested to her that she not post, not rant, not rage and often contradict herself, not go back and edit, not delete etc. etc. etc.
But hey - we were just gushing MB fangirls…
I know that in one of the very first threads about this sad cluster, I shared my experience with a coworker who at one time managed the BO’s boarding barn on the adjacent property. She was always smarter, better, out to get people, manipulative, smirking, secure in her knowledge that she was untouchable and in charge of everything. She also set up cameras around the property to spy on boarders and even had one “hidden” (not very well) on the fence line pointed at the front door of my barn apartment down the hill and on my truck.
It took a long time to get the BO to understand what was going on… but the endless overlapping lies slowly started to unravel… and when my co-worker could not longer keep all her lies straight or remember what tale she had said to who, her smug little empire crumbled and she was finally fired. After she left, we would hear that she was spreading vile lies about the farm and the boarders… and, of course, me and the BO. Apparently she has now moved on to Montana to become the amazing reining trainer she always pretended to be. I am so very sorry, Montana. Deeply sorry.
Prior to that hot mess, we had a trainer operating out of that same barn who had many of the same characteristics. As long as blue ribbons continued to come in (as a result of the superior horses, not that particular trainer’s unique skills), the BO dismissed our concerns and complaints… until once again, the tower of lies started to crumble. I often wish that both these people had been at the barn at the same time - the fireworks would have been extremely entertaining… but the drama would have been far too much for the boarders, the horses … and me!
When this saga started to unfold here, it all sounded strangely - and sadly - familiar. But even mentioning that brought down the MB fangirl accusations and condemnation.
It is fascinating to watch it all unfold and play out… although I usually have to catch up on the video in the evening when things have settled down for the night around here.
Dr. Reiner Klimke often shared that he was still taking lessons - despite being an Olympic gold medallist. Why? Because there is always a new perspective… always something to learn…