I hesitate to even engage in this thread, but:
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There are unrelated threads on this forum in which people are having issues with other boarders or with BOs/BMs/trainers, and at least one poster suggests installing a camera, or a camera has already been installed by another BO and the poster is soliciting opinions on that. I don’t think it’s so incredibly unheard of. To be clear, I’m not saying hidden cameras are a good idea if you don’t have permission from the property owner–just that it’s not so insanely far out there.
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For whatever it’s worth, I also don’t think it’s crazy for someone to go check on the horses. Again, in other threads if someone posts they are getting ready to leave their barn under tense circumstances, people advise them to leave immediately, pay double board if needed, etc because the horses might not being cared for properly, or even worse. It seems a bit disingenuous to argue here that horse people would never not care for a horse properly due to interpersonal conflict. Sadly, all horse people are not true horsepeople, if you know what I mean, and it does happens, even under less extreme circumstances. I would absolutely ask my husband to go check on my horses if I were in hospitalized, just for peace of mind, even if my hospitalization had nothing to do with the barn.