At this point I can’t even follow the debate here.
I just want to make a few points.
The “true crime” blog or YouTube video is an established convention, people comment widely and freely, but the novelty here is the victim getting into the mix. Many true crime chats are much more virulent agsinst the players than anything on COTH.
It’s evident to anyone who has followed the thread from the start that LK is a piece of work with a long history. Much of what she says online or in personal messages is either just not true, or exaggerated to the point it has little resemblance to the truth. This has been shown multiple times.
The fact that a respected trainer shot her is the mystery and the puzzle that keeps this case interesting. If she had been shot by an intimate partner or a drug dealer or a person in a bar after an altercation or in a road rage incident, we would never have heard of it or care. It would barely make a couple of paragraphs in the local paper.
Thus our fascination is: how does a respected established high level trainer end up doing this? What pushed him over the edge? Since MB’s team has wisely maintained silence outside of court hearings, we really don’t know. And honestly the trial may or may not give us an answer.
I think for most of us, the fascination is in the question of how someone suddenly does something so wrong, and so life altering. LK is not a mystery. We all know people on the LK spectrum, both IRL and online. If we’re savvy and lucky we duck them IRL and block them online before they dox us. If we’re unlucky or careless, we get drawn into direct conflict.
If we are very unlucky or make very poor choices, we can end up being the person who breaks the law. Just like in elementary school, in a situation of bullying or mutual taunting, the child who threw the first punch was the trouble maker sent to the principal’s office for discipline even if they were the clear target of bullying and intimidation.
Anyhow, much of these threads has circulated around the central mystery of: why did MB end up shooting? Thus all the background info has been very relevant, and LK adding her own voice to the mix has certainly reinforced conclusions drawn from other sources.
How does a shooting happen? What does it take to make a respectable established trainet make such a poor choice? And, once that choice is made, how will the law treat him? What defense is possible?
Last week I was following completely random bail hearings for Canadian trucker convoy fools. Very interesting, I learned a lot, and it drove home to me that you need to be a lawyer in that field, in that jurisdiction, and apprised of all the particular facts of that case, to be able to speak meaningfully. And of course the lawyers who are in that position are all extremely partisan, prosecution and defense. Obviously. So both are putting a big spin on things. The relevant document is really the judge’s decision, the precdent.
A lawyer in another field will have a better understanding of the process than a lay person but will likely be circumspect because they know enough to know what they don’t know. For most of us lay people, though, especially if we’ve watched too much fictionalized law and order on TV, we actually know nothing about the specific wording of law in any jurisdiction.