I think this thread creation is more a plea for hearing that others deal with this too, you know misery loves company
For those who can chime in - Would love to hear your ideas and what has worked for you.
My trials and tribulations began six years ago when I purchased a 2 y/o dwb/app filly as my next hunter/dressage prospect.
Mare is a naturally flatter hunt type mover, which is just perfect for our area where dressage and hunter judges appear to look for the similar movement. Longer, lower but engaged.
Total A++ personality. Quiet, reliable, safe, no prep but will toss an appy joke at you just to check that your listening.
Filly was born broke. Or so I thought. Now, it seems she is just very choosey where she exerts her energy.
In her first four years under saddle, myself with the help of various trainers have brought her up as a lopey 3â hunter packer.
In the recent two years, I started to want more from my flat (dressage rides), which consume 80% of our time together.
With the help of a trainer, we have successfully shown training level with scores in high 70s, moved into first and now schooling second.
Now, that we are asking for more impulsion we have hit a wall. A very tall and hard, brick one. Yet trainer and I know she is very capable, just slow to motivate.
Trainer rides PSG and describes her as a âminimalistâ.
We have crossed off health, fitness and saddle fit issues and chalked up this lack of energy as her âpersonalityâ.
Attempts at new motivators, whip, taking leg off, âswooshingâ whip, riding with two whips, clucking etc, work tremendously, with only random reminders for a few weeks then mare bores of these again and they stop working. I cannot even rotate them.
Mare is just too smart and too quiet.
Apologies for long, drawn out explanation but I feel stuck. I know mare has the fancy in there and has a ton more potential but I fear she just wants to be a kid horse or low level dressage horse.
Anyone else been through this? How did you accept it?
Note- Mare really perks up on trails and on cross courses but good trails are hard to come by around here.