I am in the camp that I am skeptical that false allegations are our biggest problem here.
SafeSport is an investigation process. They don’t suspend people based on anonymous phone calls. They collect evidence and do an investigation. An anonymous phone call might substantiate other allegations or might help uncover other evidence of abuse but it’s not going to be something they do on a triviality. This is all documented - and again this process is mandated by federal law.
Further, I see this as an assist to the criminal justice process. Yes, it is terrible that while under investigation someone who is not actually guilty might miss a horse show. But in the criminal justice process, that same accusation might land him in jail and paying a lot of money to a criminal defense attorney. Those are the options. (And of course both can happen in parallel.)
Sexual relationships with your minor students or work subordinates I know are common in this industry, and maybe people never learned that they’re not okay. So anyway, now you know: not okay. If this person is the love of your life, wait until they turn 18 and/or get them a job with someone else, so the relationship can be real and not tainted with power.
We need this process. But, it’s not our decision to make anyway - Congress already did because gymnastics and swimming and wrestling and many other sports could not solve this problem on their own, of sole proprietor coaches preying on athletes, drifting from town to town in the unlikely event they were caught.