this is an alter but not because I care if anyone knows who I am; mostly just because I don’t want this post to spring up on google since I use my name for everything.
I’ve just been diagnosed with cervical cancer, after being in remission for almost 5 years. i’m not even 25; I’m frustrated, hurt, stressed. i don’t know how I’m going to manage my horse, dogs, and 3 jobs. my first thought was “this is going to be expensive” followed by "I don’t have TIME for this!’ It wasn’t until I got home did I start thinking darkly about it; what would I do with my animals if I died, how will I approach my family, etc. Should I preemptively loose my part time jobs or attempt to balance them? I don’t want to quit on short notice but I don’t know how reliable I will be once I start a course of treatment. Do I HAVE to tell my full time job? I know I can continue to work (its an overnight shift which is largely sedentary short of emergencies, which are rare) so I am BEYOND fortunate to be in the position I am in. A year ago, working on my feet in 12 hour day shifts with no lunch break, I’d be in a cold sweat now.
I am feeling a little alone because I have no family support. Due to other issues I am choosing to keep it my private issue…I’m really just feeling sorry for myself. I’m not really asking for sympathy though… I would really just love to hear success or tips or just good stories from people who have already been there. Were you guys able to work and do radiation–what about chemo? Did you make it out to the barn–is my horse better quietly rotting for a few months or did you pay someone to ride; should I lease her out? I am seeing a specialist next week about my course of treatment so I’m in the dark about how we will be proceeding so far. I really appreciate this board being here as I don’t have much of another outlet.