I’ve ridden mostly regularly (once a week) for the past two plus years, with a short break last winter. But this is after a LONG break. I’ve ridden at a couple of different barns before I found the right fit.
At Barn #1, we did some work at the canter, but it was limited. At Barn #2, we never cantered. I’m not over-inflating my riding ability (though I recognize I needed to get some strength back), and all the horses I rode were totally sound and more than capable of cantering, it just wasn’t a part of the lessons. It’s not like I want to just tear around and canter non-stop for the whole time, but I think this should be a part of most lessons.
At Barn #3, we canter, and things are finally starting to click, I feel fearless like I used to and ready for the challenging horses. I’ve also ridden lesson horses that picked up bad habits because they were leased/had a long-time rider that was afraid to canter, etc. I feel like cantering is sometimes built up to be this big, scary thing when it should be no big deal.