Ah, yeah, I see how you took my post that way, and that’s not what I meant to convey.
I was specifically referring to Everyone thinks we all do that. I should have been clearer, that’s on me. I don’t agree that everyone thinks we’re all doing that. I don’t think the sky is falling. I do think that anyone who’s been in enough barns in any discipline knows that some will do anything if they think it will make the horse do the thing. Like some parents of cheerleaders will murder the competition to get their kids on the squad, some people have no bounds, and lots of people will stretch those normally-decent bounds to the razor thin limit, to get it done and keep the lights on.
I would hate hate hate to have to ride horses for money to pay my bills.