[QUOTE=Angelico;7639570]
Well that was a useless and unnecessary remark.
What kind of “role model” hj25’s mother is or isn’t is not for you to decide or judge. He/she didn’t say their mother was the best or the worst, or even good or bad. Hj25 simply shared the reasons they and many other young riders would have not to refuse the ride based on their own opinion on a totally sound horse. Some people consider the people that have them opportunities before withdrawing from Finals without a real reason. Most kids aren’t as stupid and some treat them; they know how the adults around them think and feel, whether or not they say anything.[/QUOTE]
Sorry, I disagree, primarily because the reason I was taught to pursue sports, etc., was to learn to think and act in a mature fashion. And part of being mature is being able to recognize when my acts may jeopardize the health and well-being of others - human or animal - and being willing to do what I can to mitigate those risks. If HJ25 or any other rider feels a horse needs a break - even if at finals - but her parent or other sponsor wants her to ride anyway “because of all the money that has been spent”, then that is a pretty sad commentary.