I have had dogs for the last 33 years of my life and never had to leave them crated while I’m away from home. Yes, my dogs are crate trained, as I take them to agility classes and trials. I’ve also taken overseas trips with my dogs, in crates in the cargo area or under the front seat in the cabin, so I know how important it is to crate train them. None of my dogs have been destructive, although one of my rescues does suffer from separation anxiety but after a week in my house he settled in and can be trusted to have the run of the house. Now, he still suffers from separation anxiety if he is elsewhere, barking madly at least for a few minutes.
I do have a doggy door from my back porch to the fenced-in back yard. When temps are above 50’s, dogs have the run of the house and access to the back yard. I worried that my dogs would bark and annoy the neighbors, so I asked my next door neighbor who works at home if my dogs were barking or being disruptive. He said no, he hardly noticed when my dogs were in the yard.
When my older dogs became incontinent, I restricted them to a very small area in the house, and covered the floor with pee pads. I knew they couldn’t hold for a long time so they’d have messed their crates and themselves if I didn’t provide enough room for them to relieve themselves.
I know my dogs love to look out the windows while I am gone: they will lay on the back of the armchair by the window downstairs, or in my daughter’s bed by her bedroom window, or on the trunk I have in my bedroom.
I make sure I provide plenty of exercise for the dogs on a daily basis, whether going for long walks in the neighborhood, dog parks, trail rides with my horses, running agility or playing fetch or tugging at home when weather is bad. I think all of this gives them mental stimulation and keeps them from becoming destructive at home. I know crating is the solution for most working people, but it isn’t my first choice.