soloud, you’re way off base. I respect you plenty but you’re nit picking posts and implying things inside them that just aren’t there.
I realize the OP is currently riding different horses. But the only way I can help educate her about saddle fit and help her address the lack of sitting level is to see the saddle on SOME horse without all the padding. Then we can discuss how it sits and what might be done to make it sit more level. She can then apply that information to other horses having learned something about the saddle and its fit to a horse’s back.
No one told her to talk back to the barn manager or even to talk to the BM at all. I am suggesting that the OP get a good shim pad and learn how to assess saddle fit for herself. Then she can use the shim pad as necessary and that should help her issues without needing to involve the input of people who don’t seem to be that into helping her make the saddle fit. I also suggested the get a Thinline if there’s a requirement for half pads, because at least that affects the saddle fit less.
If it’s her BM’s way or the road, I don’t know why she’d come here asking for advice?! Clearly she’s seeking some sort of advice or a second opinion.
You’re looking for condesencion where none is there. OP didn’t take my posts that way. No one else seems to have taken my posts that way. All along I’ve been trying to help. I don’t know all the intimate details of this poster’s riding history. She asked for advice about saddle fit, I am trying to give that advice but also help her learn/start thinking herself so she can make more education decisions.
Maybe you can offer her some useful advice?