I made an account here simply to make this post. It is very important! I saw a few posts but nothings helped enough for me to make a big enough move.
I have an Arabian, about 19 or so, I’m not positive. I just moved him to a new barn a couple weeks ago. He has finally gotten comfortable and is no longer getting bitten or pushed around. Although, he got too comfortable. Another horse there called Charlie, who is about 32, always has a best friend. His bff left him around the time we arrived at the barn. My horse suddenly moves in and they are best friends (after biting each other a bit of course.) I don’t ride very often since I am a bit large for such a small horse, but I was hoping with a new barn with an arena and everything I need, I could finally ride and make my horse strong and healthy again. (he may be a bit older but he does not show it!)
So, I rode a bit in the arena (the stalls surround the arena, it’s unique and so cool!) (also the horses are almost always outside unless eating or waiting for a rider/owner) and he was fine, no problems besides the normal “I haven’t been ridden in so long, what is this, whaT IS THIS???” wariness. I didn’t go to the barn for a few days after that, then I got in touch with the trainer and started taking lessons (just getting back into riding for now, nothing specific) and had a session on her horse. It was late so I went home without seeing my horse. It was just a few days Ince I’ve seen him, but today I went out and it was TERRIBLE! I walked far to the end of the field to get home and he was getting jumpy and walking in front of me and trying to go back more and more as we walked to the barn. It started getting dangerous halfway to the barn. He has bolted before, when I used to ride him away from the barn at the old place. But I never went far so I never knew how bad it could be, I didn’t think it could be so bad.
Anyway, I knew he could bolt back to them so I kept a tight grip but still, he is a horse; a large, nearly 1000 pound animal that could kill me in a second. I was worried but I still didn’t know how bad it was. I took him into the barn and just walked him around since a guy with his horse was in my area in front of my stall, and there was a whole barn so I didn’t want to be right there if I had a whole barn but I didn’t want to use someone else’s area and- okay, I have a social anxiety issue and over think things, anyway;
My horse, Maverick, would keep neighing loudly and keep trying to walk out the door to his buddy Charlie. I had a thought, so, whenever he neighed I would make him spin on a front leg. He never stopped neighing by the way. I just kept lunging him, but he would stay as close to the door as possible so it was for like figure eights in front of me rather than circles around me. It was not really getting better and I didn’t want to associate him being away from his buddy, and with me, bad. I eventually let him back out (but he had trouble as he tried going straight to Charlie but there are two fields and he was just standing at a fence looking sad) after about 40-50 minutes.
But!!! Charlie is an old horse and his only buddy is my horse. I believe he is the barn owner’s horse. I just moved there and don’t want to be rude to anyone by putting my horse in a much smaller field, a paddock really, with other horses. I don’t want to hurt Charlie, or his feelings, or metal stability or whatever by separating him from his friend (even though, from what I’ve seen, he doesn’t really care, he doesn’t neigh or move when Maverick is away.) He’s older and can’t walk well, so I can’t work with them together, which was what I wanted to do.
Sorry about the whole back story! I go in depth with things, sorry! What I am asking is; What should I do with my horse? Should I separate him in another paddock with a few other horses? I don’t have time to work with him in the field or with other horses. The inside (barn and turnout) field is completely separate from outside (24/7 turnout) field, but the paddock is right next to the indoor field. Ugh, I can’t keep him in the barn all the time, nobody keeps their horse in and it’s not natural for horses and my horse doesn’t like barns unless other horses are there as well.
I don’t show, and I don’t plan on showing; with Maverick at least. Please help me! What do I do???