HotfireQueen is up in arms! There is a certain bossy junior (CBJ) at my barn who insists on giving its opinion when it is not asked for. This CBJ thinks it can ride any horse and loudly critiques both adults and other junior riders. Needless to say CBJ is not popular with any other barn members. CBJ wants to ride HotFire’s new horse because “I think I can ride it a little better than you.”
Hotfire tries very hard to avoid said junior but will be showing with it a few weeks from now, and needs advice on how to handle this delicate situation. Does one approach the trainer, the child, or the child’s mother? Trainer is a mild person and does not like confrontation.
CBJs mother gets very annoyed when anyone reprimands this child. Mom is always in attendance.
Thnk you.