On a more positive note,
My daughter had a wonderful OTTB and together they galloped around 5 CCI**** courses including one long format. They were awesome together.
In walks Twin Gates Farm. TG had posted on COTH that she had some wonderful horses who needed a rider. I had a rider who needed a horse. A few phone calls and a trip to meet in person and low and behold Twin Gates horses started arriving at our farm! We each took a chance and so far everyone is happy.
DD got a $5k inheritance from her grandfather and together with help from this person and that person, and many other persons, and selling everything that isn’t nailed down, DD relocated herself and a TG horse to Germany. Smack in the middle of German culture, both human and horse.
It is hard, very hard to drop your life and go, but it is a life experience to beat all. The days are extremely long, the horses and the people work extremely hard. There have been ups and downs as there always are with horses, but they are on target to reach their goal.
The cost of competing in EU is way less than it is here and the training is the best in the world. There is no substitute for being able to school at places like Luhmuhlen and Sarhendorf multiple times per week. They load up 8 horses and go ride. DD gets on 8 to 10 horses per day, everyday. There is lots of dressage work and lots of show jumping, and galloping, and cross country, and trail riding. Every horse is ridden twice per day. She has very few days off, but her plan was to train and train some more. That fits right in with the German system.
TG gave us the boost that we needed in providing the right horse and DD is giving a huge return on investment.
I hope more breeders give this a try. It may not work for everyone, but it has certainly worked for us.