[QUOTE=trubandloki;8679921]
I am confused why it matters?
Are you equally as pissed when the car salesman tries to get you to buy a specific car, telling you how it will make your life better and how your family will be safer?
It is the same thing.
If you do not like this brand of saddle then tell the trainer no and go to a saddle fitter or tack store and shop for your own saddle.[/QUOTE]
Your point about the car salesman is not what I am talking about.
The difference is:
[1] If I go into a car show room I know that I am looking to buy a car and I know that the car salesman is there to sell me that car. This is clear and transparent.
[2] If I go to a tack shop that has many brands of saddles, I now the person in the store is going to sell me on one of the saddles that they have. This is clear and transparent
[3] If my kid goes to a trainer to learn how to ride and progress in her riding and i hire that trainer and pay him i expect that is the business he is in. It is not clear or transparent that he is being paid off in the “payola” scheme to get my daughter to buy a new saddle so that he can make some more money. I expect the trainer to be looking out for my daughter. The trainer does not declare he is in the saddle selling business, does not offer alternative brands but simply is a shill for the saddle company paying him to do his dirty work.
Maybe you can equate that with honest salesmanship - but I look at it as fallen trust relationship with misplaced trust in the trainer as the trainers is on the take from the saddle company.
As mentioned the trainer is hardly open about such a thing, but uses his influence, often subtlety but unfairly to push a kid into a saddle because the trainer wants more money !
Sad situation when this conduct is justified with analogies to “actual sales people” selling product in a transparent way.