You know, I went to a moderately tough high school in the 1970s when students were left to their own devices to sink or swim. Girls had actual fist fights. I have a very good sense of how you can taunt to get someone to the breaking point, then claim “they started it and attacked me,” and how you can dial up drama so everyone is stalking around ready to pounce. And we didn’t even have social media. Thing is, when I got to be about 16 or 17 I decided it was absolutely ridiculous and stopped participating. So did most teens.
As an adult that’s had a few adventures, I’ve never been in a bar brawl or even had a friend of any gender thats been involved in one. Cranberry juice, beer, nothing. I’ve never had family or coworkers or clients steal money or rip me off. I’ve never felt compelled to trash clients online. Etc Most people don’t experience any of this. So yeah, if you’re a drama magnet look close to home.