Now, apropos of another thread entirely, I have an embarrassing wealth of options for mounted orgasms. (Go to Off Topic/“Women shouldn’t ride horses” if you don’t know what I mean.)
So, I need help deciding.
I moved to this new area a year ago, and trying to get my “magic” mix of ride times has been difficult. I had been riding a jump lesson and 2 trail rides (with friends) a week in my prior neighborhood. All on school horses/lease horses: I don’t own anymore.
The jump lesson was more for fun and exercise than for any notion of showing, though my background was in 3 day.
Anyway, I’ve had a trail horse now for 5 months, and have made a couple friends at that barn…
n the other direction is another schoolie barn with a lease horse available who can do a jump lesson a week, and they have trails AND have indicated I could do some riding work with my granddaughter (12) on that horse during my lease days. But he’s not up for an event, passed it.
In the middle is the very nice ready-to-go event horse, but no trails, no riding work with my granddaughter. I could show him but might do the bulk of my work alone.
I’m not getting younger. Neither is my granddaughter! She had horse camps when 8, 9, 10 and enjoyed it, but the last 2 years, nothing. Not sure she has the bug, but I could give her the good old college try here in her 12th year.
I might be able to manage 2 horses on half leases each, but no way could I manage all 3.
So, do I give up on the new friends at Barn A, or the family friendly situation at Barn B, or the ready-to-go eventer at Barn C?
After today’s jump lesson at Barn B, I’m not sure I’d ever get the aerobic strength back to run a full course, even at BNovice. My lungs are pitiful. But yes, I could try!!
Barn A
trail only
new friends
Limited horse
Barn B
arena and trails
family flexibility
limited horse
Barn C
Arena only
ready-to-show horse
Upper level ride, well schooled.
What is a grandma to do?