I’ve heard of the military industrial complex, and when I got married I became deeply acquainted with the wedding industrial complex. But lately I’ve been frustrated by this idea that there’s an equestrian industrial complex, too. And it kind of feels like, unless you fully embrace the industry and all its quirks and costs, you’re going to have a hard time as a horse owner.
Some of this was prompted by sneaking over to the Horse and Hound forums and seeing just how different the horse culture is over there. It seems like it’s more common for the average person to take ownership of their horse’s care and training. That feels like the exception here. To be honest, even horse ownership—period—feels like an exception here. It’s not only more common but in some ways much easier and more frictionless to lease. I know at my barn, it feels like things are designed to cater to people who are part-leasing the barn-owned string of show horses. Part of what that entails is that the barn is responsible for all management, training, and prep, and the client just shows up and rides. Leasing also removes a big training burden, too, with the idea that if you’re struggling or just not clicking with a horse, you end the lease and find a new one. It feels like (either as a result of this, or maybe a contributing cause of it) the riding culture here has little tolerance for struggling. It’s like, if you’re struggling, you’re doing it wrong, and you need a new horse, or a new trainer, or both. The idea that maybe you could stick it out and solve your own problems just doesn’t feel like it’s as widely embraced.
Lessons are tailored to developing the rider. All the horse’s training and prep is handled separately. Wanting to be more involved and learn skills to train your own horse is regarded a bit like showing up at a restaurant and wanting to learn how to cook. It’s just not how it’s done, and ultimately best left to the professionals.
And that’s just the tip of the iceberg. There are so many other adjacent industries that can feel like they complicate horse ownership or obfuscate problems that could be addressed with better quality training and management. But you’re not really encouraged to learn any better, because even if you knew, there would be nothing you could do about the training and management anyway.
Maybe this is a little bit geographically dependent. And I could see how it’s worse in some disciplines than others, like how the over-dependent client is such a stereotype in the hunters. But, to me, the sad part is that—just like with weddings—you can go into it wanting to avoid any of the nonsense and trying to do things yourself, but the industry is set up in such a way that it’s actually way harder to do that than it has any reason to be. It’s just the whole culture surrounding horses here. And by “here,” I realize I may be talking about a tiny part of the country, and people farther afield may have entirely different experiences of horse ownership and the horse industry. But this has just been my experience, and I’m very salty about it at the moment and needed to vent.