Oh god, that drives me nuts. BNRs have this air of entitlement and think the rules don’t apply to them. The competitor’s program and info specifically said NO DOGS for GMI this weekend, and there had to have been at least 10 loose dogs running around the stabling area. When one of my volunteers pointed out to a groom that her dog was being a nuisance and that it said “no dogs” in the program, she snidely responded, “rules are made to be broken.” Srsly? Get over yourself!
One little ankle-biter kept trying to sneak into the riders’ tent (where the catered food was), and we were constantly shooing him out. The sheriff was sitting right in plain view and could call up the health department to fine the caterer for violating health codes by allowing animals in an eating area.
[QUOTE=FitToBeTied;8743510]Related to volunteers it is a pet peeve that some eventers including many BNR/BNT never volunteer. I’ve know some people that in 20 years of eventing never volunteer. I know and have heard all the excuses about you don’t have time, etc. because it will cut into your competition schedule but I saw some of these very same people walking around Great Meadows this weekend. So you have time to come watch and do the parties but not time to volunteer.
It really irks me to hear eventers complain about volunteers when they are not willing to do it themselves. I heard this several times on Sunday.
This is what drove me out of volunteering about five years ago and seeing that nothing has changed means it may be five years before I do it again. So next year, I’ll take up the invites to the tail gates instead of volunteering.[/QUOTE]
Ditto. It makes me see red when I hear complaints from these BNRs who have NEVER volunteered a day in their lives. Don’t get me wrong, some are very gracious and courteous, but lately I’ve noticed more and more of them are becoming spoiled brats who think we’re only there to serve them. I got maybe three "thank you"s at the end of the weekend at GMI. Instead, I got attitude from dear Boyd Martin because I wouldn’t let him have his passports back until he settled his tab with the show. Never mind the fact that I personally took unpaid leave from my regular job to do this, and many of the volunteers used up vacation time to drive up and stay in hotels just so they could help out… oh no, we are only here to make YOU happy, BNR.
It makes me truly sad to see our sport becoming this way.