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OE called me again this afternoon.
He was/is upset that I said he was not honest with me on here. Per our first (of 2) conversations on the phone, he said he was refunding me the money I paid for the pad and that it was on the way to my house ‘even though he was not happy about it’.
He clarified today that while he had been able to change shipping addresses once in the past, he didn’t think it could be done twice, but when he found out the morning after our first conversation that it could- he changed it.
I asked “When were you planning on telling me that the pad was not coming to my house, and you were having it changed to ‘return to sender’?”
“Well that’s not mumbled something”
“What are you going to do with my embroidered pad? Why not just send it to me anyway? I’m happy to go back on the Chronicle and say ‘Hey, OE called, is sending me the pad and apologized. Glad they figured it out, guess this was a learning experience for everyone involved’”
“Well it’s low that you would ask for a refund on an embroidered pad (which I did not do, until the end of our conversation today- I’ll get to that in a bit). And I can’t just give away pads! Little girls save up for months for these pads! I can’t believe you called me a liar on a public website.”
“I did not ask for a refund during our previous conversation”
“Do you have that recorded?”
“No I do not, do you?”
“It seems there has been a lot of miscommunication, I’m happy to refund your money”
“Wait- it hasn’t already been refunded???”
“No, you sent an email Wednesday saying you wanted the pad shipped to you!”
“Well of course I did, because you had said the night before you were shipping it to me and refunding my money, after apologizing for dropping the ball! Then after I emailed in and asked why it was being returned to sender, you said I had cancelled my order! Which I didn’t! You said the night before on the phone that you ‘were not happy about it, but that you were refunding my money and letting the pad ship to me.’ And you still have not responded to my last email”
“As I said before, I was at Rolex and could not answer-”
“I don’t care where you were, it doesn’t matter. There were a number of things that went wrong with this order.”
“Ok”
“So that there’s no more miscommunication: I want my CC refunded. I am willing to open a claim with the CC company if this does not happen.”
“Ok, I will do that right now”
Per an email from OE (post phone call), my card has been refunded, for the pad and twice the shipping. He asked in that email that I come on here and clear things up, which hopefully (?) the above did.
Everything has been settled. I have my money back.