Gah! I did the math and

I may have to get one more horse this lifetime. :wink: :racehorse: if all stays the same with my health and activity and finances. I come from a line of long-lived, healthy, active elders (as in slowing down in their 80ā€™s). My mom is 90 and has just slowed down physically and mentally in the past 5 years or so, and I am more active than she was.

My mare is 24 now. In about 5 years she will be too old (unless I am lucky) to haul my arse around the trails. My gelding is 21, so heā€™s looking at elderly, too. So, they will be retiring in the next 5 years or so, depending (lucky we have a small farm).

I will only be 72 in 5 years. My granddaughter is 11 and we have been riding together on them as much as time allows. I donā€™t know what she will be interested in when she is 16, but just realized it may be two horses if she keeps being horse crazy like me. :crazy_face:

Donā€™t tell hubby! Not making any grand plans, but just had an epiphany.

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Do it!

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Absolutely- is there any doubt about the right answer??

LOL, Iā€™m not going to dissuade you. Iā€™m turning 61 next week. Iā€™m selling my tried and true 7 year old and buying another 2 year old (I backed/started the 7 year old after buying him as a just gelded, unstarted 3 year old. I have a 10 year old and 13 year old that are here; so, while I continue to keep them in jobs I figure starting another isnā€™t too crazy. To be honest Iā€™m already looking at the breeding for the next one to come up behind the 2 year old. Then I think Iā€™m doneā€¦not with riding but with the backing and starting stuff :wink:

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Hahaha!

I bought both mine as 6 & 7 year olds, green, and finished them off to my liking.

I have always wanted an OTTB - but I would think I would get one that was returned to New Vocations that is older, not one off the track anymore.

And I have wanted a Mustangā€¦

None of this will happen for a few years but I can start dreaming LOL! Was feeling like I was at the end but definitely know I am not ready to stop yet!

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Not a horse, but I did just buy a new horse trailer. The old one was 18yrs old and starting to nickle and dime me. Iā€™m 62. If it lasts 20 yrs it could be my last trailer purchase. I figured it was better to buy now while I was still working!

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Well FWIW, I am 72. And two years ago I bought a 6 yo OTTB without seeing him in the flesh. Iā€™m really enjoying working with him. Yeah, there are days when accumulated injuries keep me from riding, and I have to respect those. IMHO reality checks are important. What kind of brain does the horse have? Will it suit my interests? The hardest thing is an honest evaluation of what my body and brain can do now, and what trajectory theyā€™re on. I opted for a younger horse so that if my trajectory had a unexpected turn, he could be sold to a good home. Iā€™m not fortunate enough to have a horse loving granddaughter nearby!

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Ha! Love itā€¦I always say ā€œthis his my last horse -or saddleā€ but it never is. Donā€™t stop. If youā€™re still breathing, itā€™s never too late.

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Iā€™ll take the opposite view. Iā€™m 67 and, god willing, the current horse has another 7-8 years. At that point Iā€™m done. Basically, two reasons. First there is back and hip surgery in probably the next three years. Second, I wouldnā€™t want to leave behind a horse for someone else to have to deal with.

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If I took another on, it would be a late teens type. Unless my granddaughter does stay with horsesā€¦then she could get it LOL!

Life is unpredictable (wow! I am profound today!) 10 years ago, I imagined that my 15 year old QH and I would finish our horse journey together and ride quietly into the sunset. Then, for no reason any vet could determine, he developed ROA (Heaves) at 17 and I was told he would never be sound enough to hunt. I found a wonderful 10 year old QH who suited me (eventually I realized jumping was never something he would do well, but we had moved to second flight by then) --and amazingly-- he was a rock-star at Mounted Archery --so we did that in the summer and fox hunted in the winter --OH ROA horse never coughed again a month after I bought the new kid (eye roll).

And I imagined that between the two of them, I would finish my horse life and ride into the sunset ā€“

Nope. At 17, the new QH developed an arthritic knee ā€“ for awhile I kept him going on 'bute and everything else the vet could think of . . .but in October 2023, he was waived for lameness at an archery meet --and he was never sound again. Although he blasts around the pasture on his own like a wild-man, heā€™s off even at the walk, so no more riding (ever) for him.

And I was back to my now 25 year old hunt horse who can do Mounted Archery, but thatā€™s a lot to ask an old fellow in the heat of the summer --I will hunt him out this season, though, probably the last one for both of us (many reasons --Iā€™m one of the oldest members there, and the 90 min drive each way in the dark in the winter is not getting easier).

Facing the reality that Mounted Archery and Fox Hunting were ending for me at 72, I was resigned when (cue the music) Bob found ME!

A lovely 9 year old QH gelding (same lines as both my other horse on top: Hancock and (hold breath) Two Eyed Jack on the bottom! Nicely trained, beautiful ground manners --mounted shooting background --and will never need shoes!! Ticked all my boxes.

Now I have a new plan: For awhile I will continue Mounted Archery, but my shooting buddy is struggling (we travel together) with a new baby and her own horse issues. Usually I do 5-6 shoots year, this summer only 3 --and as I said, after 57 years of Fox Hunting, Iā€™m moving on --but to what?

Oh, wait! A friend invited me to a Ranch Horse Retreat next spring --three days for total beginners to learn cutting, sorting, penning, and obstacle trail riding. Then three times a year there are one day almost ā€œin houseā€ shows only two hours from my farm --all designed for people and horses who have never done this before!!!

Hey! Iā€™m in! Bob is headed to a friends place early Sept. to see how he reacts to cows (I donā€™t want to spend time and $$ only to find out he flees in terror at the sight of a cow). Then I will sign up if Bob is good with it. Might be fun, might not, but something new for us to try!

Who knows? With Bobā€™s breeding, he just might be good at it!

Bob a couple of days ago:

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Love your story Foxglove. And that you have Bob in your life. Handsome!

Pffffbbbbttt! :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
I took up Driving in my late 50s, bought my Driving mini as an unbroke 2yo at 66.
Heā€™s 10 now. :grin:

Buy the horse!
At least you have the granddaughter to pass one along to :sunglasses:
No kids for me, so mini will go to a Theraputic program that teaches Driving.
My other 2 are 21 & 24 - chances are Iā€™ll outlive them.
If not, theyā€™ll be euthed as neither is a candidate for anything except pasture pet.

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Bobā€™s a handsome fellow. If you do go to the Ranch Horse Retreat I wonder how many people will be drooling over him and be impressed with his breeding.

At this point in my life, I doubt I can afford to get another horse but hoping to start up some lessons in the spring. That money thing is in the way, again. Iā€™ll be 69 this year and I donā€™t want to turn into a couch potato.

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Hereā€™s my story:

I was 64 at the time and had a lovely, late teens horse that was absolutely perfect. Lovely to hack, could hunt in any flight. But I started to think, just as the OP, what would happen if he needed to retire earlier than planned? I had hoped I could ride him into his mid 20s, but nothingā€™s guaranteed, and did I really want to be looking for a new horse and trying strange horses in my 70s?

Also, I observed that I had many hunting friends who stopped hunting not necessarily because of age and infirmity, but that they lost their last trusted horse, and couldnā€™t face the process of finding another.

So I did what any rational person in my situation would do: I bought a three year old. :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Some important background details. I knew this horse since birth, actually, I knew her in utero. Knew the dam, knew the sire, knew multiple half siblings. Watched her grow up. Knew exactly how she was started under saddle. Extraordinary disposition. I paid training board for a few months and had someone else hunt her the first handful of times.

Sheā€™s 5 now and just lovely and I trust her exactly as much as my wonderful steady eddy gelding. If I have to stop riding for a major surgery at some point, Iā€™ll breed her or lease her out to another foxhunter.

As far as long range planning, my gelding will retire at home and live out his natural life in my front pasture. If something unforeseen happens to me in the next 5 to 10 years, the mare could easily be sold or leased.

Dear OP, we donā€™t stop riding because we get old, we get old when we stop riding. Get another horse.

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@swmorse --I will be robbing Peter to pay Paul ā€”what I annually pay to join the hunt club will return to the horse budget allowing me $ to try new things. What I will say next, I am certain you have already said to yourself: If you donā€™t want to be a couch potato, exercise daily. I am now approaching my third year (started during COVID) of daily exercise: 30 min spin bike in my basement, then four days a week alternating between lower and upper body weight lifting (following FB group calendar of what to do), with two ā€œrest daysā€ that are exercise like Yoga or stretching --but keeps me doing something each day.

I get up, put on my workout clothes each day and tell myself: you must ride that spin bike for 5 min --after that you can get off. Somehow, 5 becomes 10 --and usually I do 30 min to 45. Then, same with the weights --lay the mat down --get out the appropriate weights (5-7-10 pounds all in m y basement) then you can just like on the mat, but somehow, weights right there, a plan in place and I get through the routine. There are days when I do just lie on the mat with my eyes closed --but not many. If I do that, I use a ā€œrest dayā€ to make up what I missed.

Of course, life is life, and sometimes I donā€™t have the early morning option due to Dr appointments, or riding commitments. But usually I do have time or if Iā€™m travelling, I do a body weight ā€œroutineā€ --most places have a workout room --fun to try a treadmill or elliptical instead of my spin bike.

And Iā€™m proud to say, I feel pretty good about myself after I do my morning routine, no matter what the day offers --I DID that!

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I have a friend who turned 79 a month ago. She purchased her now 9 year-old BLM mustang as a just halter broke and gentled 2 year old when she was 72. She did all the work with him from purchase (now showing first level and starting second level movements). Sheā€™s enjoying him and has a safety net situation set up for him if she can no longer care for him. Personally I think heā€™s whatā€™s keeping her going and the joy she gets out of just being with him is obvious.

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Yeah, Iā€™m still in my lazy stage. I was forced to get rid of all my horses (6 at the time and I ended up giving them away) in late 2020. Stayed with my brother and his wife in south Florida for about 8 months, found a great place (for me) in NC in 2021. I was walking in NC, my Florida legs needed to get used to the NC mountains! Then had to get my second hip replacement which took a lot out of me with the procedure they used. But now, 3 months later, Iā€™ve finally hit on the supplements I need to keep moving. I started CBD last month and wow, Iā€™ve gone from feeling like Iā€™ve been beaten with baseball bats to, huh, I feel pretty good. Iā€™ve got to get back into an exercise and strength training routine.

Iā€™m 56 and think Iā€™ll need one more horse and one more truck. My truck is a 2012. My horses are 30, 16 & 17. The 30 year old is already retired and the other two are in great shape, but might not be in another 10 years. The 17 year old is a 12 hand pony, so should probably last a long time. I could just ride him all the time and pretend Iā€™m the queen of England.

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There is a rescue that my friend got a nice retired Arab from that also takes on Amish standardbredsā€¦they will take the horse back if needed so that is also an option.

Not ready yet - hopefully a few more years left out of my current ones before they retire!