A few years ago, I would have said all the same things as Angel and Canticle.
And I was mired in all those same thinking patterns for quite some time.
When I got rid of all that, I was a lot happier, I had appreciation for what a whole HECK of a lot more people out there were doing, I never felt jealous or unhappy or defeated at after a show, if I didn’t like what someone was doing, it was what I was doing that I didn’t like, not someone else. If things were not going as I liked - I looked at ME - What should I be doing different, not the rest of the world, not someone else. I didn’t blame the judges, how the sport is organized, other people - just ME. And if something needed to change, it would be me. I don’t score well? I don’t bitch about the judges, I work harder. And guess what - it’s always worked! Even with the crappiest horse in the world, wonders of wonders.
All of a sudden, I could appreciate just as well the rider on the ancient quarter horse just barely posting the trot, JUST as well as I could be comfortable with that wealthy gal on the super warmblood wining the FEI class - I could appreciate the effort of both, and both types of horses, and not saying some fake ‘bless her heart’, but feeling it - really feeling that and being HAPPY about it.
I could love that old sweetheart horse of mine MORE (if that is even friggin possible) - as well as understand a tiny bit of what it takes to climb that competition ladder and make some very, very different choices and take a very different direction. Most of all, I was happy with my choices and what I had. And I was NOT unhappy about what the rest of the world was doing, either.
I don’t think ANYONE on this thread is honestly, really as far as this issue of getting a horse that matches the goal, ‘unhappy with how the sport of dressage is developing’, I think the indignant and hysterical freak out about the mention of the word ‘loan’ in the article, is a complete fake out.
I think ‘how the sport of dressage is developing’ at the Tournament of Winners or the national championships, even in the business of qualifying for 3rd level, or any of that - I think none of that has a whole heck of a lot to do with what affects them directly, and why they’re so unhappy. they are unhappy because they look at people winning and it makes them - jealous. Pissed. I think it galls people’s hides that they go to shows and they don’t win as much as they want - I think quite a few people don’t even VENTURE to shows, some NEVER did, the excuse always being, ‘it’s all about money, it’s so unfair, I can’t afford the winning horse’. And THIS - THIS is not a new problem. This has a lot to do with the psychology of competition, and how extremely difficult most (women, yes, women) find it to understand competition. And it totally distorts how people look at the issues Sydnor discussed, how they look at the sport, how they view others in the sport.