No matter what, she is always there for others.
I had no greater joy than on the Saturday before Christmas. Dorina’s “modder”, BBer nhwr, called to say “Aiden is getting the transplant! Aiden is getting the transplant!” And after we laughed and whooped and hollered and shed tears of joy, I immediately called Dee Dee and Dave, who were on their way to Tucson to see visit Dee Dee’s parents for Christmas. And darling Dee Dee, who had just had chemo, was just filled with joy as well and was SO happy to hear the great news.
Dee Dee, your strength of character is an example to us all. No matter how poorly you felt from your own illness, a big shiny beam was the good news about Aiden. And your touching concern for my father was a huge source of comfort.
And just think for a moment about the strength of this BB bond we all share. Dee Dee, who I know from this BB, and I shrieking with joy because nhwr, who I know from this BB, called to say that Aiden, who we know from this BB, was at that moment getting the transplant that so many of us from this BB had prayed for for so very long. And at that moment we were all interconnected by phone and cell phone and email and internet and IM and everything, filled with happiness about a single event.
And now we are all interconnected by phone and cellphone and email and internet and IM, filled with sadness about a very sad thing. And though it does not make it any easier, nor does it lessen the pain, I am again filled with awe that we are blessed to be part of a community that is so filled with love.
Dee Dee, if there is a star in the sky that is shaped like the biggest, brightest heart, then it should be called Dee Dee’s Star. For you have the biggest heart of any one of us.