I not a breeder, I haven’t had many weanlings and yearlings (two year olds yes, babies – no).
When I bought my weaning in 2007, my only horse at the time, many on COTH said “don’t handle too much! Just let them be a baby out in the field! Don’t overdo it!”
Well, from the time she came to me at a right around 5 months old – I handled her. Every day, short sessions. First it was just halter breaking (walking around the property with a butt rope – nothing more than 15 mins) and grooming. I would bring her into a stall every day and handle her. Touch her all over, groom her, feed her, go for a little walk and hand graze.
Walks turned into strolls out on our trails.
Grooming progressed to bathes.
Handling progressed to practicing for the farrier and touching all parts, udders, ears, mouth etc.
In hand work increased to trail obstacles in the arena.
As she got older, the “work” increased. She started going on real hikes with me. Learned how to lunge (not spun into the ground, but understood the concept well).
I tried my best to keep everything stress free and fun. I made my expectations clear, and set boundaries, but made an effort to make things quite enjoyable for her.
Now, almost 7 years later I have a great horse. One who boldly marches were ever I ask her to go, she is fabulous trail horse, a fun jumper (who never stops unless I REALLY screw up), has wonderful ground manners, the type that ground ties, LOVES to be groomed, including baths – she will let you spray her face without protest, foot perfect for the farrier, very people oriented, comes to the door of her stall and asks for pets with pricked ears.
She never had the “terrible twos” or the “terrible fours” or the other “young horse rebellion years” that I have read about on COTH. Since she as backed as a three year old, she has been a very cooperate, game horse. She has never thrown a rider, or even had a meltdown. I feel she has always understood that “work” will be part of her life, but it will be fair – she has a great work ethic, meets every question with a “yes”. I know every horse is different, but I have absolutely zero regrets in handling her regularly as a youngster.