To the person who scoffed at the suggestion of this woman having “mental health issues”.
Mental health issues does not have to mean psychopathic, deranged and/or violent behaviour.
Look up the definition/description of “borderline personality disorder”. All of Jill’s behaviours/actions, coupled with her complete denial that any of this is her fault and inability to apologize or fix things in a normal, healthy way, are symptoms of BPD (not saying she has it, obviously i can’t know for sure, i’m just sayin’ it’s all eerily familiar…).
As someone whose family was torn apart by a woman like this (when my father remarried), there is nothing shocking to me about it. Because I have lived it. It involved lots of lawyer’s letters, insane accusations of fraud/harassment/theft/you name it, a kidnapping/sequestering situation (my grandmother), hiding from police trying to enforce a court order, and on and and on…
And i have not spoken to my father in 5 years because of it. 
There are many, many people out there like this - who aren’t disturbed enough to have problems functioning semi-normally in society (keeping a job) but who are most definitely mentally ill and feel that everyone ELSE is the problem, not them. They tend to project their own issues onto others, so when they lie they accuse others of lying or being fraudulent - and they genuinely BELIEVE they’re in the right. It’s a sickness, make no mistake about it.
I am truly, truly sorry for anyone involved. I have been there. Unfortunately it was not money that I lost. It was my father. :no: :no: :no:
Fingers crossed no horses or people get hurt in this mess.