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Thank you everyone for all of the wonderful suggestions!!
I have had her work on w/t/c in two-point and w/o stirrups, and over cross-poles & low verticles (no more than 2’) and she still is having trouble.
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If she’s still having trouble, she is not ready to move up.
Forgive me if this comes across as rude, but she sounds as if she’s being pushed before she’s ready. If it seems she’s never learned to move her hands up the neck during her horse’s effort, shes’ not ready to move up to bigger jumps. And a single bounce isnt’ going to fix it.
She needs to learn an independent seat… Putting her on a trustworthy horse down a chute of jumps-- say, four or five-- w/reins knotted and arms out at her sides, or hands on hips will help. OR ((horrors)) send her down that chute with her eyes closed. If she can’t see the jumps, she can’t anticipate to jump ahead, or fall back prematurely. Frankly, your student sounds as if she’s got strength, but is lacking relaxation.
And… if she’s chocking a horse consistently in the mouth, put it in a hackamore so you can limit the damage she does. Frankly, if she’s not grabbing mane from 2 strides out, then I’d be screaming like a banshee until she does. And frankly, her inability to do so ALSO communicates tension… which indicates pushing beyond ability.
From your own descriptions, I really don’t think your student is ready to ‘move up’.