Thank you all!
When I researched hip pads on the web I ran into a rather discouraging study claiming that the hip protections do not help reduce hip fractures in nursing homes. Then I read deeper and the people they studied were in their 80’s and had a hip protection pad on one side and no pad on the other side, which to me seems to offer the possibility that these people were off-balance.
I ordered the GeriHip w/ PPI-RAP Protective foam brief and pads. I talked with someone at their office and he told me that this product does not interfere with sitting down after I told him my tale.
I am thinking about getting some ThinLine shims and lining the hip protector and maybe my protective vest with some of these shims. I hope this might (I have no proof) reduce the bruising. I have BIG bruises along the edge of my vest, it transferred a lot of the shock out to the edges of the vest. I do not have bruises where I hurt the most, but my body was telling me that the hardness of the foam when shocked still transferred some of the shock when I hit to my rib-cage and two ribs cracked.
With help from Traumeel (liquid and salve), 6 aspirin a day, and my BOT stuff, I am healing and I hurt a lot less than I did two weeks ago. My bruises are also fading.
This fall has lead me to coming up with new plans for my riding future. I HAD been hoping to get back jumping low fences, but now I see that my MS has messed up my nervous system so much that I have absolutely no hope of being able to safely ride a jump again. After riding for over 45 years, and over 10 years of lessons with the best riding teacher in my life, I SHOULD have been able to ride the horse’s shenanigans, and many decades ago I would have been able to stay on, hey he protested from a walk.
I get so bored just walking and trotting around the ring, but at least I am still riding horses. My riding teachers seem to think that I get the horses going in a positive direction and they like how the horses improve under me. I had bigger ambitions even with the MS, but now I see that I better settle for what I can do in reasonable safety.
Now my riding goal is to go on riding until the day I die.