I often ride alone (which I prefer), but not always. The BOs like to ride when I’m there (they don’t ride often). He’s much better when other horses are in the arena, but still hypervigilant. I plan to try riding with the Western trainer now that I’m working from home. It kind of disrupts our schooling but I don’t want to go to the hospital now! Yes, he’s much better when other horses are in the arena going by the GoD. Interestingly, I turned him out in the playground adjacent to the ring (which has tones of grass and clover) when the western trainer held his last clinic (so about 5-6 horses in the arena) and my horse threw a fit… running, bucking himself into a lather watching him from afar. This is a place I regularly grazed him in/around because of the grass and clover growth. He came up to me when I went to get him, showing his insecurity in life.
I used to take him to “open shows” with a friend who rode QHs. Clearly, we weren’t going to win (clearly!!!) but we did manage to win a belt buckle!!! Mostly for conformation classes. You can’t desensitize a horse more than taking him to open shows! SO MUCH going on!!! Sometimes he was great! Most times, not to much. We went to one barn regularly (my friend purchased a QH from this barn) and they re-painted the in-gate red. I had classes held for me because my horse wouldn’t go through a gate he went through many times before. It was red. I rode in an English Pleasure class and when we lined up, the judge said “That did not seem pleasureable. Are you OK?”
We’ve tried dressage shows when he was younger, and he was a mess even with a trainer. At 11, he might be different but shows have been kind of a waste of money. He spooked at a bird the other day, did I mention he lives outside? That’s where his brain can be at. I have to work with the horse who shows up. Yes, I need to conquer his fear because I want to show third +. I’m usually a pretty gutsy rider, who doesn’t take foolish crap. I’ve regularly implanted my spur in his side, and am seriously considering harsher spurs. Clinician Rolf J. suggested I try roweled spurs, but I can’t find them at 1" or under.
I’m doing Facebook stuff (thanks, coronavirus) with an FEI/GP level trainer who specializes in young horses, who worked with him and me when he was 4. She knows him. She knows his past. She’s the one who hosted the USDF trainer demo rides that I did.
Thank you!!!