Good grief, what is so bad about actually USING the whip, to get the forward you want?? Having a whip with sufficient length of lash, to “reach out and touch him” lightly is usually only needed one or two times. Horse QUITS ignoring you when he gets lightly touched. After that lesson, snap of lash end is enough to keep him moving at the speed you want. Chasing the horse with a short lash (6ft or less) whip, is an exercise in futility, horse quickly thinks this is a FUN game!
We do a lot of long-lining, where we have control of entire horse, rather than lunging. We find it easier to get the horse progressing consistently in long lines, than lunging where they can escape or do things wrong out there on the line.
We use a lightweight whip stick, lash is light and LONG, about 18ft, so we CAN reach horse if needed. Whip is a tool for touching him, not letting horse ignore your directions, not an abusive device when used correctly. Our horses are doing big circles out on the long lines, making 60 to 70ft circles, changing speed, direction, dragging things as requested, as they learn.
Here anyway, horse going into long lines KNOWS his ground work, is well mannered to handle, respectful of his handler, works with vocal commands. So then he already understands what you ask, just is now doing it out further from the person holding the lines. Whip spends most of the time being dragged behind the handler, but ALWAYS in hand if needed. When you ASK vocally for a change by horse, you don’t ask 2-3-4 or MORE times before getting after him with a whip touch. Waiting just teaches him to wait, UNTIL the whip touch. Ask once, let him respond. No response? Then you ask again vocally and with the whip touch together to get IMMEDIATE response to the command. Asking with no follow up, is worse “untraining” to me, than touching horse with the whip so he connects things quickly.
Truly is only a touch with the lash end, we are not snapping and popping the whip to mentally stress the horse. He gets a touch when he ignores a command, otherwise whip is quiet, not busy flying around to scare or bother him.
For learning to just touch a horse, you may need to put in some time working with a good whip stick, long lash, so you can place the lash where needed, with light or firmer touch when it lands.
We make our own lunge whips, add the lash length needed to reach horse out there on the long lines. Stick is light, easy to balance with that long lash, doesn’t kill your wrist while you hold it during the training time. I can’t use a commercially made lunge whip, they are clumsy, top-heavy, and lashes are way too short to reach the horse out there.