I have been working on getting my horse to soften, work from his hindquarters and lift his back for about 4 years.
I trained it by asking for his hq and creating a wall with my hands if he tried to speed up, and then asking for flexion with my leg. He never leaned on my hand but truly softened.
He can hold himself in a bridle, hackamore or even halter.
Now he holds a good training level frame easily, and has [B][U]maybe [B][U] 3 pounds in my hands, but mostly just holds it from my leg.
i took a lesson the other day where the instructor had me shorten my reins by about 10-14"
My horse lifted his head and went around very nice in more of a 1st or 2nd level frame, but it was much much heavier and harder for both of us.
When do I shorten the reigns and ask more? How much is too much as far as weight in the reins?
I have practiced a few times just moving back and forth in the different headsets, and it’s not like we are pulling tug of war or anything, I wouldn’t even say he is leaning on me when I just make him hold it for a round or so and then go back to lower headset - just that he doesn’t have the strength to hold his head that way without my help.
Will holding it build the muscles? Or will it just teach him to lean on me?