Hi everyone! Let me first say thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of your responses. I very sincerely appreciate them all. Work has kept me from spending any time at the barn yesterday and today. Monday I only had time to drop off the omeprazole and say hello to my guys real quick, but tomorrow and the rest of the week (especially this weekend!), I’ll be able to be more hands-on.
To again try to answer some of the questions- I adopted this mare as a trail mount/play with dressage and see how things go. I have not ridden her at all since bringing her home. At the rescue, she was ridden only about 15-20 minutes at a time, and only 2-3 times a week. (they simply don’t have time/staff to spend extended time with every single horse) The first week home, work intruded, and then she started downward spiraling, so I’ve thought it best to just let her be for now. She is the boss mare in her group of 6. I don’t necessarily disagree with the herdbound thought, as the first couple weeks she would willingly leave the group, even out of sight of them, when I would take her out to hand graze, with no issues. I think as she’s gotten more and more frazzled, she’s definitely seeking the safety of her little herd.
It did take a week or so for her to first notice the pig, so the coincidence of her noticing it and her mental issues beginning is not lost on me. I’ve owned horses for over 30 years at this point, and I can say without hesitation that she has been the most difficult to handle. Whenever she plants her feet, I try to get her unlocked by turning her head in a slightly different direction and tugging just to get some forward momentum going. Sometimes it works, sometimes not. When she seems frozen in place, I’ll go up and stick a finger in the corner of her mouth to get her to move her jaw and release the tension. This can also help, but is not a guarantee. Sometimes getting her to focus on me is difficult, and I’ll have to pull her sharply to one side (while leading) to get her brain focused on keeping her balance and back on me. Any time she’s stuck and I can get her to move, I always release the pressure as fast as I can, and make sure to at least verbally praise her, if not a quick pat.
I’ve already been in contact with the rescue about bringing her back. Of course my fee is forfeit; I cannot “trade” her for a different horse, nor can the funds I paid for her be applied to a different horse, with me still owing the difference. If I want a different horse, I’m going to be on the hook for the entire adoption fee of the new one. I’ve decided to give the omeprazole a couple weeks, and if it’s showing some promise, fork out the $ for Ulcerguard and then re-evaluate. But if nothing changes in the next couple weeks, she’s going to have to go back. I can’t risk her hurting anyone at the barn, much less myself. Plus I simply don’t want a horse that I can’t enjoy and makes me happy. Full stop.
I promise I will give y’all updates, and please keep the ideas coming! 