I live in an area with minimal eventing exposure and opportunities (Middle TN) and as I’m working to improve myself as an adult re-rider, and paying to improve and refine my horse’s skills, I’m beginning to think about exposing my horse to eventing-specific things; cross country schooling, trial environments, etc…
So for a tiny bit of context: my trainer is an accomplished competitor, trainer and teacher in the hunter and jumper world. I have no doubt in my mind that her skillset can get my horse and I through Novice (if we even make it that far), and I really enjoy both her teaching style and training methodologies that she utilizes with her own horses and mine. I have no plans to replace her as a primary trainer nor leave her farm.
That said, she only does rated (A/AA) hunter/jumper shows with her students. With that, she travels quite frequently with her students who do show consistently and although I absolutely do not mind, I would love to begin to network with others in my area in the eventing space to supplement my lessons while she’s gone and to be able to build skills and experiences in a lesson format (off of my horse) prior to introducing them to my horse (i.e. cross country). She has no experience nor contacts/colleagues in the dressage and cross country phases of eventing, which is fine, since a lot of skills at the lowest levels of eventing are pretty standard and transferrable, but if I was going to supplement and add lessons to my plate, I think it would be nice to have someone doing what I want to do to provide input.
So my questions are:
- Is it rude to reach out to trainers in my area to effectively ask if they would be my secondary, ‘eventing-specific’ trainer/contact? Obviously could not ask for any in house-student benefits, like invites to barn events or clinics and stuff, but frankly my trainer owns the barn so when she’s gone, it’s literally just me which can get lonely. All of my seriously-competing friends back home (Ohio) have several trainers for whatever they are trying to accomplish (i.e. dressage trainer, jumping trainer, one acquaintance even has a separate cross country coach?) which is where I’m stealing inspiration.
- I’ve already planted the seed with my trainer by expressing an interest in doing a couple of dressage lessons (and asking for a trainer rec - she had none), but in a similar vein to the above, is it rude to ask her to ‘share’ my business?
Thank you in advance!