If there is one thing that I have grown to hate in the horse world, it is the barn hopper who is disloyal.
Most of the time, a nice trainer finds a horse for a student and takes lots of time to help the rider and the green horse out and even loans out blankets, boots, bridles, halters and such while the new owner is getting his feet wet and deciding what to buy and as soon as the new horse is going good, another trainer “courts” him to come to their barn and without a look back or a thank you, off they go.
The next time you see them, they have bought a new bridle, a new Butet and are decked out like they are the show circuit queen themselves and you wonder why you ever helped them out. The year or two you spent riding and training their horse and teaching them will be forgotten and someone else will get the glory.
Something that I learned a long time ago, but what I can never seem to keep in mind until something like that happens, is the more you do for someone the more they expect and the less they appreciate it and when they move on they brag about paying someone to take off and put on their horse’s blanket (which you did free), turn out their horse (which you did free), let them use your clippers and tack (they didn’t even replace stuff when they wore it out or broke it) and shared the vet call everytime to save them a few bucks plus much much more.
GO FIGURE!
I guess I should feel lucky if they say HI.
Is Loyalty a forgotten word?
[This message has been edited by RedHotMama (edited 11-02-2000).]