This is something I don’t understand about “natural horsemenship”. And maybe modern Western riding because all these NH trainers are Western riders. (Although, I hesitate to paint with such a broad brush.) I don’t want a horse that blindly obeys like a dog for fear of getting in trouble. I want him to listen, to trust me, yes, but I don’t want blind obedience. Horses are intelligent. They can see stuff coming down the pike that we sometimes can’t. I want a horse that will judiciously exercise veto power for the two of us if he thinks we’re going to die trying to do what we’re doing.
This past weekend, my daughter rode the freaky athletic jumper pony in what was daughter’s first ever (schooling) jumper show. This pony can take off from anywhere, and takes “handy” to a whole nother level. She stopped at the 3rd fence in their first trip. That was literally the first time I’ve seen that pony stop or even be less than 100% enthusiastic about a jump. They regrouped, cleared the 3rd fence & continued on. I was videoing their round & didn’t see what happened on the approach in real time. Yet I was 100% certain that the pony had made the correct executive decision for the two of them. And sure enough, my daughter explained later that the stop had absolutely been due to pilot error.
I had an OTTB that came to live with me for a cushy step-down after a long career as a steeplechaser & high performance hunter. He’d belonged to one of my daughter’s previous trainers & her husband. He apparently refused twice in his life. Both times at the same fence on the same X-country course. The husband was upset & asked his trainer wife what they were going to do about it. She said she told him: “What do you mean ‘what are we going to do about it’?? We’re not coming back to this venue again is what we’re going to do about it! He never refuses. There’s obviously something wrong with the fence.”
This is how I want my horses to be. I want horses that are not afraid of asking me what I’ve been smoking ehen it’s called for. Not a 1200 lbs GSD that remains in a down staywhile the building is burning down around it because I didn’t give it a release command.