I really am fine with discussion and opposing views, but I donāt get the need to come here/return to here and carry on being a jerk. If you have differing views, by all means express them, and while there is a majority view for sure, some of us will consider other views and/or discuss them. If youāre throughly proven wrong, donāt take it personally, facts are facts, or lackthereof. Easier said than done, I know, and itās so easy to get caught up in the riff-raff but itās also fastinating to me when posters get away with some outrageous claims. Iām still waiting for proof on at least 3 things said about me but there isnāt any, so thatās cool. Once someone exposes themselves as a BS artist who is flinging words to just get a rise Iād suggest enhancing your forum experience by placing them on ignore. It works for me quite well (the feature).
There are many things (yes, even those thingS said by the mob) that I disagree with, but canāt prove otherwise at this point, so I sort of just leave it. Itās hard because a lot of things re this case are like that; no proof x did happen that way but no proof that x didnāt happen that way. Hence the never ending room for arguments.
Nothing like coming here, again, to say that posters are āspewingā on social media instead of ignoring and living their lives, or whatever, and then doing the same. Itās sort of like when someone exclaims how ātoxicā CoTH is and keeps coming back
You can sort of make your own experience on these boards though. Either by using the ignore feature, scrolling, or only reading certain topics.
I have a question about Laurenās zoom deposition, will it be held in an attorneyās office that she will need to pay the standard rate for? Will there be proctor type witnesses to prevent any nefarious issues and will she be responsible for their fees as well? (How sad it is that anyone would suspect someone of cheating on a deposition, but she and her family have proven time and again that the law and ethics donāt apply to them.)
I canāt follow that logic. She filed with SafeSport that he was bullying and then he shot her. It validated the SafeSport complaint. If her gut was telling her it was unsafe (yes, she should have left) but she had a wrong perspective on the reason, her gut was still right. Once he shot her, it didnāt matter anymore. He was unsafe. The environment was unsafe. Any children that had been on the premises were in an unsafe environment.
With that logic, his complaints to USEF and SafeSport prior to shooting her could be construed as self justifying his shooting her through the organizations he felt most comfortable. Premeditated.
I donāt think so. I think it was tit for tat cascading bad decisions and a lack of professionalism. He was willing to ruin her dreams of competition but too āniceā to evict her? Then he shot her and and ruined his own life and nearly ended hers. Without a criminal record, he can rebuild but Google says NGRI verdicts stigma can also stay with the defendant.
The 8-9 concussions, his age, the divorce with the added business partner breakup, the cash flow issues, the freeze and living conditions with no one to help him through this, the deluge of hysteria in the information coming in from grudge holders against LK (who were not sued by JK nor at all frightened of him), he was all alone.
Hindsight, maybe he should have evicted MH and RC (along with her gun), calmed LK down and kept RG working to repair the house. At least he was getting some board from LK as compared to none from MH.
I think you are spot on with this, and your prior comment on the relevance of the transcripts.
I will only add, I think that MBs legal team might be thinking ahead about the SafeSport sanctionsā¦ and they might be pursuing the transcripts in the event they have to go to arbitration over SafeSport sanctions.
Multiple other SafeSport bans or sanctions have been overturned or reduced during arbitration proceedings. If SafeSport decides not to lift MBs ban upon his release from Greystone (thatās a possibility), and IF he then pursues arbitration concerning the SafeSport sanctionsā¦ these transcripts might prove very relevant.
Think about it.
IF there is a significant deviation of one type or another (an omission or misrepresentation) in the transcripts submitted by LK and KK as part of the original SafeSport complaint vs. the actual recordings they madeā¦ that would be VERY helpful evidence to have during an arbitration proceeding.
At this point, after having read many threads on this case and after having watched the trialā¦ I would be willing to bet that the transcripts deviate from the recordings in some way. My guess is that certain conversations, statements, and key context was omitted.
My life experiences involving habitual liars is that they are very skillful, intentional, and prolific when it come to lies of omission. My guess is key contextual information (or statements) was omitted from the transcripts, so that the Kās could paint a certain picture of the conversationsā¦
CPS didnāt show up because LK whined he was bullying her. They arenāt interested in adults that can easily leave a situation. They showed up because of an accusation of child neglect/abuse to SS, which she went with when they werenāt showing enough interest in her supposed bullying accusation.
@Rubyroo didnāt make that connection. It was already made much earlier when a poster confused tack lockers with a sports team locker room with naked people showering.