I’m pretty far behind, but will comment anyway. This is why I think MB was already on his back on the ground and one of the bullets went through LK and then through the door window—the saddle pad drying on the laundry room rack—and out the back window.
This. So much this. I wish I had a dollar for every COTH smack down that consists of: “What do I know? Well, I’m a (blank) of (blank) years experience with these credentials (blank).” Followed by crickets chirping.
Can I please defend all of the commissioned officers from the Marine Corps I’ve known and say that the likelihood that RG was ever a commissioned officer is highly, highly improbable? Not sure it someone has claimed RG was a USMC officer but he would have had to pursue a 4 year degree and then enlisted for likely at least a 4 year contract to have been one. His criminal record doesn’t have enough gaps in it for that to have happen IIRC. He also would not have qualified for a waiver.
RG may act like a recruit that never made it through boot camp but he certainly doesn’t behave as a commissioned MC officer.
Not everyone here has the same theory. I believe he shot the gun in self defense. Always have.
Completely agree with you and also why I believe MB was attacked and used self defense. It sounds as though he was attacked getting out of his vehicle and the altercation brought them to the ground in front of the truck. LK’s story was unbelievable when she explained how MB allegedly shot at her and RG (with two different hands and a third bullet casing never found), but there actually IS forensic evidence to prove LK’s story a lie.
Self defense in a constitutional right. That means that one is lawfully permitted to use deadly force, IE., shoot someone, if they are at risk of death or serious bodily harm. Therefore, it is entirely within the realm of possibility that MB was lawfully permitted to shoot LK in the case of self defense.
You may not like that fact but it really doesn’t matter. And self defense can not be disproven to have occurred in this case.
Self defense wasn’t allowed to be discussed at the criminal trial but the civil trial is an entirely different story. LK will also be stripped of any victim’s rights she had with the criminal trial.
I still maintain that nobody deserves to be shot. In this case, I can understand HOW she was shot, and how she contributed to that outcome, which makes me far less sympathetic to her as a victim… But I don’t think she “deserved” it. I just think she willfully contributed to that outcome, whether it happened because he was insane and took aim, or because she got shot during a scuffle, or whatever. She was no innocent bystander, so I find it understandable how it may have happened.
That said, I don’t agree anyone ever “deserves” it, necessarily. I am staunchly against gun violence and believe that it is out of control in this country. Furthermore… Even the worst of criminals deserves a day in court. There are certainly some depraved people who, when assassinated, I don’t feel bad for… primarily those who commit mass murder or genocide… but I would prefer for people to rot in prison if they are unredeemable, than be shot.
Anyways… IANAL still cracks me up as the newer caveat. I still read it as two words. Juvenile, I know. But it makes me giggle.
That’s not it even kind of slightly at all. It’s about family of currently serving members who puff themselves up or whinge about the military life or complain on behalf of their family member. It’s generally a wife of active duty personnel thing. Other wives and family frown on the person who puffing themselves up based upon their husband’s current situation. Like when someone demands preferential treatment at a local business based on the military service of their spouse, not their own status.
I am utterly confused how you twisted it into ‘military families think it’s a faux pas to be proud of military service’. What a weird place to go to.
I agree. But I also think that there are some who would argue that because Poster X is a (blank) of (blank)… their word is the word of god. And I would disagree.
@ekat is going to be the best tractor IDer there is.
I think another/better example is - if someone you love is being beat to death with a baseball bat and you have access to a firearm, you wouldn’t save your loved one’s life and discharge it?
This would be purely hypothetical as I don’t advocate for gun ownership, but in self-defense, sure. Let me revise: Generally speaking, I don’t believe people deserve to be shot, EXCEPT IN CLEAR CASES OF SELF DEFENSE.
ETA: sorry for the caps, not directed at you. I mean, only when clear.
Same answer as above. Of course in defense of a life. But not “I thought they had a gun” or “I thought my life was in danger” when I believed the ethical duty is to retreat. I don’t believe in stand your ground and any number of related excuses for shooting people.
I don’t know for sure. I thought maybe LK had said RG was an officer or something like that. I don’t even know how RG’s family member being a USMC CO was brought up.
That’s exactly what I said. Robert G. Goodwin was in the USMC as an officer in the late 90’s and probably early 2000’s as well, but that individual absolutely wasn’t LK’s Robert Guy Goodwin, who doesn’t have a college education and is too young to have been that guy. As I said, there are many men named Robert Goodwin living in the same NJ/NY/PA region that RG’s family is from and I suspect that RG isn’t the only Robert G. Goodwin in the family and it’s possible that above USMC officer is a relative of his that he happens to resemble, as RG does share common facial features with his older male relatives. Also, the fact that his close family members call him “Guy” instead of Robert or Rob or some other such name, lends support to the idea that he has one or more relatives that he’s being differentiated from, despite a common name.